Getting love and falling for it seems extremely wonderful and highly enjoyable; the whole world looks very romantic and every moment is full of happiness and pleasurable things. However, such pleasure and happiness last no longer. There are also certain cases that when a man falls in love with a girl but she does not have the same feelings then it is very frustrating for the person feeling it. If you are one of those persons then here are the best ways that would provide you some kinds of reliefs.
As a matter of fact, the first thing you need to do is you have to acknowledge your feelings. Before feeling of being accepted, it is very disappointing and full of grief. You should not feel shy from admitting the truth if not to others but yourself. You must gather courage and take up it as a challenge to be able to stand against all odds. Without doing anything you should go for focusing solely of controlling of your emotions.
Secondly you must increase your distance with her. It is a fact that nothing will help you more to come out from the pain and grief than getting yourself out of reach to her. If you are sure that you want to begin your own life then you must stop seeing her and it also means minimizing contact to her. In case she is willing to have the friendship, it is you who does not require making the first move. You must spend time only when she tries to call you. You must stop calling her yourself and never beg to spend time together. You have to decline even if you are requested to spend maximum amount of time together. In this way you will have a considerable amount of free time.
You also must cease favoring her as because of the fact that the more you favor her as she knows that you are attracted towards her, then you will be misunderstood and your feelings will also be used down the line. In case you try to favor her then you will have two possible effects over her which include that she will begin to think you as naturally giving; even she will very easily take your favor granted. Secondly she will think that you are doing all those favor just to win her back and possibly looking for opportunities to date; it will make her uncomfortable around you.
If you normally purchase any gift to her or tries to fulfill her wish of wanting something, this is the time that you should stop completely doing such things. You must have the ability to decline the requests for favor. When she asks for a favor then you must make sure that you decline and suggest her some other alternatives even pointing out some persons who might help her.